I haven’t always been consistent with prayer.
There are times when it’s part of every day. And there are times when I get busy or distracted and stop making room for it.
When I get away from prayer, I start trying to carry more on my own. Things bother me more than they should. I don’t always recognize it right away.
And then I come back.
What you return to shapes who you become.
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Prayer changes things. But I’ve come to believe prayer also changes us. The more we return to prayer, the more it shapes how we see, how we respond, what we trust, and who we are becoming. Not all at once. Over time. Prayer forms us through the simple practice of returning again and again. That idea has been at the heart of Kneeprints from the beginning. shaped by prayer Three words that describe a life continually returning to prayer—and being changed by it....
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I used to think kindness mostly meant being nice. Polite.Agreeable.Easy to be around. The more I pray, the more I realize that’s not what I respect most. What I respect is strength that feels safe. There’s a difference. Kindness, as I’m learning it, isn’t softness. It’s strength under control with others in mind. It’s what happens when humility and restraint move toward people instead of away from them. If I’m honest, there have been times where I was right but not kind....
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If I'm honest, my struggle hasn't usually been aggression. It's been avoidance. Playing small. Calling it wisdom when it was really fear. There are conversations I've delayed. Decisions I've postponed. Opportunities I've stepped back from. Not because they were wrong. Because they felt risky. I told myself I was being patient. Sometimes I was. More often, I was just protecting myself. Avoidance rarely looks dramatic. It doesn't explode relationships. It doesn't send reckless emails. It simply shrinks your...
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I don't think you really know a person until you see what they do with power. Not power in the obvious sense.Not fame or wealth. I mean influence. The ability to interrupt.To correct.To dominate.To win the argument. Most of us carry some measure of leverage in nearly every room we enter. And often, we use it. I've noticed something uncomfortable about myself. When I don't pray consistently, my reactions speed up. I interrupt more.I rehearse what I'm going to say instead of listening.I clarify...
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I’ve started to notice something about humility. Most of us recognize it quickly in others. They don't need to dominate the room. They don't need to prove they're the smartest. They aren't threatened by someone else's success. They don't rush to defend themselves. There's a steadiness to them. A lack of self-importance. And yet, if I'm honest, humility is harder to detect in myself. It hides behind confidence. It hides behind ambition. It hides behind the idea that I'm simply trying to do my...
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I've started to notice something about people who pray consistently. They're not louder.They're not more impressive.They don't seem especially intense. They're just steadier. Less reactive. That's the word that keeps coming back. They don't flare up as quickly.They don't scramble when plans shift.They don't panic when uncertainty creeps in. They still feel things.They still care. They just don't swing as wildly. And I've noticed something else. The days I don't pray, I feel harder.More defensive.More urgent.More convinced that everything depends on me. The days I...
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I’ve been trying to understand something I keep noticing.Some people carry weight.Not loud weight.Not charisma.Not intensity.Steadiness.They don’t escalate rooms.They don’t scramble under pressure.They don’t sharpen when challenged.They feel grounded.I’ve also noticed how easily I lose that.The days I don’t pray, I move faster than my clarity.I react before I’ve examined what’s driving me.I defend small things as if they matter.Nothing dramatic.Just thinner.Less steady than I want to admit.The days I return — consistently, quietly — something shifts.Not all at once.Not perfectly.But I can feel it.My urgency lowers.My tone softens.My need...
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